On Saturday, we watched a movie called "The Croods". It was a good movie with a good message, and I appreciated how it focused on the family and showed the importance of unity in the family and how that can be achieved. There was one thing that got me thinking. The father of the family sees it as his responsibility to protect the family, so his motto is "Never not be afraid". He recites this to his family, and they recite it back. And it has kept them safe, whereas other families have not been so lucky. Yet there was one scene where the family is separated, and they are trying to find their way through a maze of tunnels to be reunited on the other side. One of the children, the rebellious daughter who has always fought against her father's mantra, has no trouble navigating the tunnels, even delights in what she finds along the way. Her brother, however, who tried very hard to follow in his father's footsteps and make him proud, has a moment where he seems paralyzed by the fear that his father has instilled in him. As a matter of fact, before they head through the tunnels, the father again reiterates, "Never not be afraid", and the son hears it and stops, wondering what to do. New was bad for them, so he was afraid to take a step into the dark, to get through something new and different in order to find a better home for their family.
The thought that ran through my head was, "What have I instilled in my children? Will it be a help or a hindrance to them when they venture out on their own? Will my words and my teachings help them to make it through the maze of this world so that our family can be reunited on the other side?" I don't want our teachings, our traditions, our family culture or habits to be a stumbling block for my children to progress and become the people they need to be. I want them to be stepping stones that will help them to find their way to be better than their parents, to be a spring board to help them soar to new heights that we haven't even imagined for them. I want everything that I do to lead them to Christ, to help them know that His love can change our lives. That is the great mission of this phase of my life, and I need to do better. The scripture says, "We talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins." (2 Ne. 25:26) Do my children know that I rely on the Lord in times of trial, that I thank Him for His many blessings, that I turn to Him when I feel like there is nowhere else to go? Do I incorporate the example of the Savior in my life so that they know that I follow after Him?